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Holding space for holding a grudge?
"I'm not one to hold a grudge," is something you might hear me say over the course of most of my life so far, and generally I'd be...
Lisa Cox
Feb 1, 20243 min read
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A flip of the calendar
Happy new year! People all over the world recognize the Julian calendar, and today as the first day of a new year. Chinese new year will...
rdk562
Jan 1, 20243 min read
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A Generation of Grinches?
As a human being, a shamanic practitioner and a death doula, I carry a banner with the motto "Permission, Intention, Compassion." This...
Lisa Cox
Dec 14, 20233 min read
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Goldfish Dreams
There is always some idea lurking in the back of my mind, ready to leap into a blog post. And then when I make the time to sit down......
Lisa Cox
Dec 5, 20233 min read
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An eye for an eye
Wednesday evening as I was bringing snacks into the Berry Center on the University of Wyoming campus for the monthly Audubon Society...
Lisa Cox
Oct 27, 20233 min read
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Little Indignities
Saturday was my dad's birthday. He is in a nursing home, has lived there since February, despite wanting to be at home at this point in...
Lisa Cox
Oct 18, 20233 min read
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Kicking the Bucket - Serendipity and Synchronicity
I thought of calling this post "Serendipity" or "Synchronicity" because those two beautiful words cropped up often during the various...
Lisa Cox
Oct 3, 20233 min read
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Fjaer Danse: The Beauty of Letting Things Go
A couple days ago I found an anonymous quote, paraphrased, "Autumn lets us see how beautiful it is to let things go." Paraphrased because...
Lisa Cox
Sep 5, 20232 min read
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A Wicked Wind
Yesterday as I was getting ready to go out the door to set up for farmers market, the sky darkened. "Market day," I said. We all like to...
Lisa Cox
Aug 5, 20233 min read
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Pulling Eye Teeth
Some days I wake up with a great idea to put on paper! Other days I draw a blank. Some months when it comes time to sit in front of the...
Lisa Cox
Jul 26, 20233 min read
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That Beautiful Moment When Night Meets Day
When I was in Dominica, almost 20 years ago, every morning my 'alarm clock' blared at that moment when dawn greets the fading night and...
Lisa Cox
Jul 11, 20232 min read
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"She wants to get me out, but I will die right here."
Last week's New York Times reported "Breaking News" that "America's population is older than ever, with a record high median age of...
Lisa Cox
Jul 2, 20234 min read
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Patience
Summer is officially here, according to those who go by the Memorial Day schedule. Where did May go? I spent a beautiful eight days on an...
Lisa Cox
May 31, 20233 min read
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Being Mortal: What is a good life, and a good death?
Our first reading recommendation for The Doula Files Bookshelf is Being Mortal by Atul Gawande. In this engaging book, Gawande, a medical...
Lisa Cox
May 9, 20232 min read
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It's about time.
About a year ago, I was in a meeting talking about my Peace Project, in which I visit conflict sites in the expansion of the American...
Lisa Cox
May 3, 20232 min read
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Grace
Well, here we go. I had found this wonderful quote regarding GRACE on a Facebook post some time ago, and I know I downloaded it......
Lisa Cox
Apr 4, 20232 min read
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80-30-30-8
The numbers do not match up. A New England Journal of Medicine study showed that 80% of people wish to die at home; however, only 30%...
rdk562
Mar 29, 20232 min read
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It's Elemental, Part 4: The Transformative Power of Fire
Tuesday shortly after midnight, I heard the sirens of fire engines somewhere in town, muffled in the night, but the only sound to hear. A...
Lisa Cox
Feb 17, 20232 min read
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It's Elemental, Part 3: The Transformative Power of Earth
One day last month I walked from my dad's to my mom's apartment. It's about 2 1/2 miles, and I go along back roads as much as possible....
Lisa Cox
Feb 8, 20233 min read
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It's Elemental, Part 2: The Transformative Power of Air
A month in Maine- rather, a January in Maine- will prove the value of Fire, specifically in the form of our Sun. Recollections of the...
Lisa Cox
Feb 1, 20232 min read
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